{"id":8432,"date":"2021-03-17T15:38:21","date_gmt":"2021-03-17T15:38:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/?p=8432"},"modified":"2021-03-17T15:38:21","modified_gmt":"2021-03-17T15:38:21","slug":"samroda-vid-randi-kurberg-barnavenjari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/?p=8432","title":{"rendered":"Samr\u00f8\u00f0a vi\u00f0 Randi K\u00farberg, barnavenjari"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Hv\u00f8r ert t\u00fa?<br \/>\n<\/strong>Sum virkin \u00ed fr\u00e6lsah\u00f8pi eri eg gamal kastari, nevndarlimur \u00ed Hvirluni, havi instrukt\u00f8r\u00fatb\u00fagving innan barna- og ungd\u00f3msvenjing, og seinastu mongu \u00e1rini havi eg veri\u00f0 barnavenjari \u00ed Hvirluni. F\u00cdF hev\u00f0i samband vi\u00f0 svenska fr\u00e6lsasambandi\u00f0 og fekk okkum svenska barna- og ungd\u00f3msvenjara\u00fatb\u00fagving, solei\u00f0is at vit og onnur \u00ed \u00f8\u00f0rum fel\u00f8gum kundu byggja naka\u00f0 upp her \u00ed F\u00f8royum, t\u00e1 i\u00f0 T\u00f3rsbreyt var \u00ed eygsj\u00f3n. Seinni fingu Heri Ziska og eg eisini instrukt\u00f8r\u00fatb\u00fagving, so vit kundu \u00fatb\u00fagva okkara egna f\u00f3lk sj\u00e1lv. Venjari eri eg enn, og \u00e6tli m\u00e6r at vera ta\u00f0, so leingi eg t\u00edmi.\u00a0Eg kasta\u00f0i fyrst og fremst sleggju og spj\u00f3t \u00ed n\u00f8kur \u00e1r, men var eisini eitt sindur vi\u00f0 \u00ed k\u00faluvarpi.<br \/>\nHeri Ziska, Rigmor N. Arge, R\u00f3gvi H\u00f8jgaard, Heini H\u00e1t\u00fan og eg stovna\u00f0u \u00cdtr\u00f3ttafelagi\u00f0 Hvirluna, t\u00ed vit vildu serliga gera naka\u00f0 fyri fr\u00e6lsar \u00e1 breyt og v\u00f8lli. \u00c1\u00f0renn T\u00f3rsbreyt kasta\u00f0u vit \u00e1 kaiini \u00e1 Sundi (har sum Articon hevur skerv- og sandgoymslu). Ta\u00f0 f\u00f3r illa vi\u00f0 rei\u00f0skapinum, t\u00ed hann lendi \u00ed gr\u00f3ti. Seinni fingu vit loyvi at venja \u00e1 gr\u00fasv\u00f8llinum vi\u00f0 Eystursk\u00falan. Ta\u00f0 var \u00f8giligt framstig at f\u00e1a kastib\u00far og asfaltatrenning til spj\u00f3t. Eftir ta\u00f0 f\u00f3ru vit ni\u00f0an \u00e1 T\u00f3rsbreyt. Ta\u00f0 gott og ney\u00f0ugt vi\u00f0 fr\u00e6gari umst\u00f8\u00f0um, og t\u00e1 i\u00f0 t\u00e6r s\u00ed\u00f0stu tiltrongdu \u00e1b\u00f8turnar ver\u00f0a gj\u00f8rdar \u00e1 T\u00f3rsbreyt, fara vit at hava einar g\u00f3\u00f0ar fr\u00e6lsav\u00f8llir \u00ed Havn.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hvat er ta\u00f0 besta, vi\u00f0 at vera venjari \u00ed fr\u00e6lsum \u00edtr\u00f3tti?<br \/>\n<\/strong>Ta\u00f0 er at f\u00e1a tingini at rigga, og ta\u00f0 kann vera so mangt, t.d. at f\u00e1a fleiri \u00ed\u00f0karar \u00e1 li\u00f0i\u00f0, at s\u00edggja b\u00f8rnini l\u00e6ra og mennast \u2013 b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00edtr\u00f3ttaliga, pers\u00f3nliga og sosialt. Eg veit v\u00e6l, at fr\u00e1falli\u00f0 er st\u00f3rt, men eg kl\u00e1ri v\u00e6l at fegnast um tey, i\u00f0 kl\u00e1ra seg v\u00e6l \u00ed \u00f8\u00f0rum \u00edtr\u00f3ttum sum vaksin, og hugsi vi\u00f0 m\u00e6r sj\u00e1lvari, at \u201cvit eiga eisini lut \u00ed, at vi\u00f0komandi er har, sum hann\/hon er \u00ed dag\u201d. Bara ta\u00f0, at ta\u00f0 gongst f\u00f3lki v\u00e6l \u00ed l\u00edvinum, kann eg fegnast um og rekja aftur til ta t\u00ed\u00f0ina, eg arbeiddi saman vi\u00f0 teimum. Eg havi fleiri d\u00f8mi um \u00f3tr\u00faliga sm\u00e6\u00f0in ella klossut b\u00f8rn, sum illa tordu at st\u00edga fram, men sum \u00ed dag taka \u00e1byrgd og eru alt anna\u00f0 enn afturhaldin og \u00f3stortlig.<br \/>\nM\u00e6r d\u00e1mar eisini v\u00e6l at s\u00edggja gamlar \u00ed\u00f0karar taka vi\u00f0 \u00e1litisst\u00f8rvum \u00ed felagnum, t\u00ed uppg\u00e1vurnar eru n\u00f3gvar, og alt skal gerast \u2013 st\u00f3rt sum sm\u00e1tt. \u00cd dag hava vit venjarar og nevndarlimir, sum komu \u00ed felagi\u00f0 sum b\u00f8rn. Ta\u00f0 m\u00e1 sigast vera fruktagott.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hv\u00f8rjar avbj\u00f3\u00f0ingar m\u00f8tir man, sum venjari?<br \/>\n<\/strong>Avbj\u00f3\u00f0ingarnar fevna um ta\u00f0 \u00edtr\u00f3ttaliga, pers\u00f3nliga og sosiala, og ta\u00f0 kann vera ymiskt, hvat fyllir mest hj\u00e1 hv\u00f8rjum einst\u00f8kum, men venjarauppg\u00e1van er at f\u00e1a alt at rigga, so \u00f8ll kunnu vera har og kenna seg vird, s\u00e6dd og f\u00f8la framgongd. Ta\u00f0 er ta\u00f0, sum venjarauppg\u00e1van \u00ed stuttum sn\u00fdr seg um \u2013 eftir m\u00ednum tykki. Ta\u00f0 er mangan l\u00e6ttari sagt enn gj\u00f8rt, men ta\u00f0 er eisini ta\u00f0, i\u00f0 ger, at ein sum venjari l\u00e6rir og mennist \u2013 fer at duga betur. Kr\u00f8vini \u2013 at tryggja, at \u00f8ll kenna seg vird, s\u00e6dd og uppliva framgongd, broytast sj\u00e1lvandi vi\u00f0 aldri og b\u00faning \u00e1 b\u00f8rnunum og teimum ungu, men ta\u00f0 er j\u00fast ta\u00f0, sum er partur av m\u00e1linum.<br \/>\nAt l\u00e6ra saman vi\u00f0 b\u00f8rnunum er eisini mennandi fyri meg, pers\u00f3nliga, sosialt og fakliga. Ta\u00f0 motiverar meg og hj\u00e1lpir m\u00e6r at flyta meg. Einki stendur sta\u00f0. Skalt t\u00fa nytta naka\u00f0, skalt t\u00fa alla t\u00ed\u00f0ina vera vi\u00f0 upp\u00e1 at flyta teg, annars er fyrningarfreistin beint um horni\u00f0.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hvussu s\u00e6r framt\u00ed\u00f0in hj\u00e1 fr\u00e6lsum \u00edtr\u00f3tti \u00fat?<br \/>\n<\/strong>Framt\u00ed\u00f0in er opin og upp til okkum at mynda \u2013 sj\u00e1lvandi vi\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ari hj\u00e1lp fr\u00e1 myndugleikunum, F\u00cdF, \u00cdSF og \u00f8\u00f0rum. Vit kunnu vaksa sum \u00edtr\u00f3ttagrein, og vit eiga avgj\u00f8rt at hugsa strategiskt. T\u00f8l fr\u00e1 F\u00f3lkaheilsur\u00e1\u00f0num siga, at st\u00f3rur partur av b\u00f8rnum og ungum r\u00f8rir seg ov l\u00edti\u00f0. Vit eiga at f\u00e1a fatur \u00e1 teimum, sum eru \u00ed hesum b\u00f3lki heldur enn teimum, i\u00f0 longu eru upptikin av \u00f8\u00f0rum \u00edtr\u00f3ttum. Tey eru sj\u00e1lvandi eisini v\u00e6lkomin, men tey hava ofta fr\u00e6lsar sum vi\u00f0f\u00e1ning, t\u00ed vit kl\u00e1ra ikki at kappast vi\u00f0 tilbo\u00f0ini, sum st\u00f3ru \u00edtr\u00f3ttirnar hava. Ta\u00f0 bilar einki, t\u00ed vit kunnu umbo\u00f0a eitt somiki\u00f0 st\u00f8rri vir\u00f0i fyri tey, sum ikki sleppa upp \u00ed part ella ikki kl\u00e1ra seg so v\u00e6l millum tey st\u00f3ru. J\u00fast av hesi ors\u00f8k haldi eg, at myndugleikar og stovnar eiga at stu\u00f0la og styrkja okkum, solei\u00f0is at vit kunnu vera ta\u00f0 tilbo\u00f0i\u00f0, sum ungu samfelagsborgarnir og foreldur teirra mangla.\u00a0Royndirnar siga eisini, at er \u00e1hugin til sta\u00f0ar (og sj\u00e1lvandi eisini venjaraf\u00f8rleikin), so fylgja evni og dugnaskapur vi\u00f0.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hvat skal til, fyri at r\u00f8kka m\u00e1lunum?<br \/>\n<\/strong>Sj\u00e1lvsinnlit, vilji, f\u00f8rleiki, t\u00ed\u00f0 og umst\u00f8\u00f0ur. Ta\u00f0 er ein samanrenning av hesum, sum skal til, skalt t\u00fa r\u00f8kka einum m\u00e1li, og hesi vi\u00f0urskifti \u00e1virka hv\u00f8rt anna\u00f0 s\u00edn\u00e1millum. Sum gamal l\u00e6rari og venjari fari eg ikki at n\u00e1greina og fylla merking \u00e1 hesi or\u00f0ini, men lata f\u00f3lk gera ta\u00f0 sj\u00e1lv og v\u00f3na, at ta\u00f0 styrkir teimum tilviti\u00f0 um ta\u00f0, sum tey gera \u2013 ikki minst hv\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hv\u00ed heldur t\u00fa, at f\u00f3lk skulu velja fr\u00e6lsan \u00edtr\u00f3tt, sum \u00edtr\u00f3ttargrein?<br \/>\n<\/strong>Eg veit ikki, um eg haldi, f\u00f3lk skulu velja fr\u00e6lsar sum \u00edtr\u00f3ttagrein. Eg haldi ta\u00f0 t\u00fddningarmesta vera, at f\u00f3lk velja eina \u00edtr\u00f3ttagrein, sum gevur teimum vinir, v\u00e6lveru og \u00f8ktar f\u00f8rleikar \u2013 b\u00e6\u00f0i t\u00e1 i\u00f0 ta\u00f0 sn\u00fdr seg um at venja og betra seg, at kappast, at vera naka\u00f0 fyri onnur (ra\u00f0fylgjan tilvildarlig, t\u00ed motivini hj\u00e1 okkum eru ymisk, eins og tey fylla ymiskt. Onkur ger mest \u00edtr\u00f3tt fyri kapping og \u00edt\u00f8kilig \u00farslit, og onnur t\u00ed vinirnir eru har o.s.fr.). Um f\u00f3lk f\u00f8la, at tey f\u00e1a hesar t\u00f8rvir n\u00f8kta\u00f0ar, t\u00e1 i\u00f0 tey \u00ed\u00f0ka fr\u00e6lsar, so skulu tey gera ta\u00f0.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hv\u00f8r ert t\u00fa? Sum virkin \u00ed fr\u00e6lsah\u00f8pi eri eg gamal kastari, nevndarlimur \u00ed Hvirluni, havi instrukt\u00f8r\u00fatb\u00fagving innan barna- og ungd\u00f3msvenjing, og seinastu mongu \u00e1rini havi eg veri\u00f0 barnavenjari \u00ed Hvirluni. F\u00cdF hev\u00f0i samband vi\u00f0 svenska fr\u00e6lsasambandi\u00f0 og fekk okkum svenska barna- og ungd\u00f3msvenjara\u00fatb\u00fagving, solei\u00f0is at vit og onnur \u00ed \u00f8\u00f0rum fel\u00f8gum kundu byggja naka\u00f0 upp [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8432","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-fif-arkiv"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8432","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8432"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8432\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8432"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8432"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.athletics.fo\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8432"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}